and Geppetto: the fantasy to not be puppet is a death wish, to not be himself
(because has no self). Without the puppetmaster, when he is gone, there is no
puppet, only death.
constancy is existential and essential, but in cluster personality disorders
and in codependency, the problem is an external locus of existence, not merely
of control. There is an outsourcing sense of being, not only self-worth.
teaches us that the only way to become human is via fantasy (lying).
predicated on becoming the puppetmaster by becoming NPD/BPD:
1.Emulating the abuser
2.Becoming (merger or fusion) the abuser
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